تجارب زیسته فرزندان از روابط فرازناشویی والدین؛ یک مطالعه پدیدارشناسانه | ||
فصلنامه روانشناسی کاربردی | ||
مقاله 2، دوره 18، شماره 2 - شماره پیاپی 70، 1403، صفحه 33-60 اصل مقاله (929.14 K) | ||
نوع مقاله: مقاله پژوهشی | ||
شناسه دیجیتال (DOI): 10.48308/apsy.2023.231531.1486 | ||
نویسندگان | ||
مرضیه دین دوست1؛ مونا چراغی* 2 | ||
1کارشناسی ارشد مشاوره خانواده، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روانشناسی، دانشگاه شهید بهشتی | ||
2دکتری روانشناسی بالینی، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روانشناسی، دانشگاه شهید بهشتی، تهران، ایران | ||
چکیده | ||
هدف: پژوهش حاضر با هدف شناسایی تجارب زیستۀ فرزندان از روابط فرازناشویی والدین انجام شد. روش: روش پژوهش، کیفی با رویکرد پدیدارشناسی تفسیری است. جامعة مورد مطالعه، کلیة فرزندان 22-18 سالی بودند که یکی از والدینشان سابقه رابطة فرازناشویی داشته است. با استفاده از روش نمونهگیری هدفمند و گلولهبرفی، تا زمان اشباع دادهها، 10 نفر از این فرزندان انتخاب شدند. از شرکتکنندگان مصاحبه نیمهساختاریافته به عمل آمد، سپس کلمه به کلمه پیادهسازی شده و به روش اسمیت و اسبورن (2015) تجزیه و تحلیل شد. یافتهها: در این مطالعه 6 مضمون اصلی: 1) مواجهه فرزند با روابط فرازناشویی والدین؛ 2) تعبیر فرزند از روابط فرازناشویی والدین ؛ 3) تغییرات ایجاد شده برای فرزند در خانواده؛ 4) آسیبهای فردی وارد شده به فرزند؛ 5) آسیبهای بینفردی وارد شده به فرزند و 6) رشد پس از ضربۀ روابط فرازناشویی والدین، استخراج شد. جوهرۀ تجربۀ فرزندان "آرزوی ترمیم خانواده و بازگشت به شرایط پیش از وقوع رابطۀ فرازناشویی، در عین آگاهی به عدم امکانپذیری آن" بود. نتیجهگیری: مطابق یافتههای پژوهش، به نظر میرسد زندگی فرزندان از چندین جنبه تحت تأثیر روابط فرازناشویی والدین قرار گرفته و لازم است به تناسب شرایطشان برای این خانوادهها، سیستمهای حمایتی فراهم شود. | ||
کلیدواژهها | ||
خانواده؛ رابطۀ فرازناشویی؛ رابطۀ والد- فرزندی | ||
عنوان مقاله [English] | ||
Children's Lived Experiences of Parental Extramarital Relationship | ||
نویسندگان [English] | ||
Marziyeh Dindoost1؛ Mona Cheraghi2 | ||
1Master in family counseling, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Beheshti University | ||
2PhD in Clinical Psychology, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran | ||
چکیده [English] | ||
Aim: The aim of this study was to identify the lived experiences of children whose parents had extramarital relationships. Method: This qualitative research utilized an interpretive phenomenological approach. The study population consisted of children aged 18-22 years whose parents had extramarital relationships. Using targeted and snowball sampling methods, 10 children were selected until data saturation was achieved. Semi-structured interviews were conducted with the participants, transcribed verbatim, and analyzed according to the method of Smith and Osborne (2015). Results: Six main themes were extracted from the data: 1) children's exposure to parents' extramarital relationships, 2) children's interpretation of parents' extramarital relations, 3) changes experienced by the child within the family, 4) personal injuries inflicted on the child, 5) interpersonal injuries inflicted on the child, and 6) posttraumatic growth following parents' extramarital relations. The essence of the children's experience was "the desire to restore the family and return to the conditions before the extramarital relationship occurred, while being aware of its impossibility." Conclusion: The findings suggest that children's lives are profoundly affected by parents' extramarital relationships in multiple ways. It is necessary to provide support systems tailored to the needs of these families. | ||
کلیدواژهها [English] | ||
Family, Extramarital Relationship, Parent-Child Relationship | ||
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